Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Accidental Reflections of My Mind---E 5 – Events, Emotions, Experiences, Expressions, Exposure and Expectations!!!!

All E’s ( Emotions, Experiences, Expressions, Exposure and Expectations) may differ from individual to individual though the first E i.e. Event might  Exactly be the same!!   Today  Morning's Auto ride led me to some thoughts which are as follows :
           Some relationships in our life are just like that between an auto driver and his passenger. The passenger calls the   Auto Driver and then lets him know about his/her preferred destination. The driver then takes the passenger to that destination and leaves him/her over there and then leaves that place immediately!!! They both share the same route till the passenger reaches his/her destination but then the passenger leaves the auto once he/she reaches the destination. Similarly, even we are at some point of our life either the passenger or the Auto-driver………..dats a fact of Life though it may sound bitter (when the emotions are up and in your face to the point where your energy body feels soggy) if we are in the position of the driver and get attached to the passenger. Why is it that some of our favorite and most exciting experiences with others can often lead to us feeling drained or craving attention? Often the answer is that you’re hung over…emotionally that is!!! We might feel empty and alone. Are craving for attention? Feel anxious, hurried and stressed! Lose your motivation to be healthy (mentally and physically). Experience a feeling of excitement quickly replaced by feeling lost!!!!
I felt anxious, isolated, depressed, insecure, angry and completely sad. It's an emotional hangover and I am sure many of you might have at some point of your Life or might experience it in future!!!! 
As with anything, the first time something happens, it catches you off guard. The second and third times it happens you recognize the feeling and start to notice a pattern. Then after another experience or two you have enough data to study it, learn from it and modify your actions. An emotional hangover is no different.
The last thing you’ll want to do when feeing un-resourceful is try to change your state. Do it anyway. Be happy being alone for a while. The path to improvement often starts with experiencing, followed by understanding and finishing with action. The cure is to “unlearn your programming”!!!
     Realize that the world is insane. So much around us is warped, tilted, twirled, mediated and distorted. People who are vastly intelligent, fiercely creative, spiritually centered and socially aware are often dismissed as "nobodies," while people with nothing more than physical beauty, pockets full of money or loud voices are exalted as "kings." The more sensitive a person you are, the more likely you are to feel trampled in this loony bin of a world in which we live.
    Vow to be more particular about with whom you share your spirit and spend your time. The Bible tells not to cast our pearls before swine. If you find that the same people leave you feeling emotionally beaten and battered again and again, perhaps it's time to eliminate those people from your life.
  Regardless of what remedy you choose, trust your intuition about what you’re feeling, and why! Be aware of moving forward- the next time you find yourself in a situation that is likely to cause an emotional hangover, get out!!! AFTERALL I THINK THAT GETTING OUT IS MUCH MUCH BETTER AFTER GETTING LOST, LOLS :)

Saturday, October 22, 2011


Date: 10/08/2011
Day: Wednesday
Time: 9:00 p.m.
Area: Mumbai, borivali (east).

Two drunkards suddenly come from somewhere and start abusing 4 FRIENDS (1 girl and 3 boys sitting inside their stationed car playing uno) and ask them to leave that place as soon as possible. However, the moment they try to start their car these boys start hitting the windshield of their car with their helmet and break it and threaten them with the political connection that they have. They also warn them not to visit that place ever again.

How many of us are actually against moral policing & the abuse & exploitation done under the name of moral policing on our friends by a few goons having strong political connections and supported by people with rigid and same old traditional exploitative values and outdated social norms???

 Can anyone simply take the law into their hands under the easy disguise of  " Moral Policing"?????

Extremists/fundamentalists  do not understand the meaning of freedom and culture and liberty. They are trying to propagate orthodox culture. Culture is never static and changes with time. The culture we have today will not be there after 40 years and the culture that was there 60 years ago is not there today. According to me they seriously lack maturity to see things rationally.

 There is a law against exhibitionism and indecent exposure/behaviour – for both men and women. A person can’t violate this law claiming ‘fundamental freedom’. Freedom is not absolute. Anybody living in a civilized society is subject to norms of acceptable civilized behavior. However, according to me no one can be punished for just occupying a public place if they are doing so in a Decent manner, (plz correct me if i am wrong) just because a girl is sitting beside a boy.

  Are you really interested in doing something against such mistreatment handed over to innocent people?????? Think over it.......coz someday even you might be a victim of it!!!!

Thursday, July 28, 2011

Can any 1 tel me??????????????

Can any 1 tel me why we are required or rather forced to pray so hard?????? when we can just thank God with Gratitude!
why do we need so many temples/churches when God is in our hearts????
why do we feel so insecure or rather made to feel so if we dnt follow or practice n propagate a particular religion???? apart 4m humanity that is..........
why do we need to accept only one particular God to mk other humans happy???? How ridiculous???? n Finally why the hell will God deny us when we r already his children??? He is our creator, i guess n not our destroyer........ plzzZ think over it rationally!!! And not religiously.................


 God is loving, caring n ever forgiving.................... n not at all criticizing, critically evaluating, monitoring or analysing us & our actions all d time 24*7---dis is d image of God created by d hard core fundamentalists n religiously Rigid ppl to achive their own vested interests n most of us r aware of it bt still we choose to ignore it, i dnt knw why????God does not need any1's acknowledgment cos he knows n loves us unconditionally.................God is not dat concerned abt how much I praise him!!!1And i am sure of dis fact coz i know dat God is nt insecure............... and if he is den obviously he is not God!!!

D punishing image of God created by us Humans is d biggest MYTH according 2 me!!!
n dats why m not at all afraid of God n what he thinks abt me!
I think its mutual................... we both belive in each other :))
-SUNNY PAWAR(Thanks to Sibin Spurgeon for stimulating my thoughts)!!!!